another one of the insights about adultery.

well, i have decided to write about my views about having affairs with a married one.
and you can read them further at diy's and ressa's blog.

i think having an affair with a married person is a character just full of selfishness.
lets take it as a woman who is having an affair with a married guy.
she does not think of the family that the guy has or even the damage that she has caused due to her selfishness.
the mistress does not think how the wife or family is feeling.
its sad. v. v. sad. when the mistress just thinks of herself and herself and none other than herself as she refuse to move on with her single life and date other single guys. and she continues to have an affair with a married person.
and as a result of her thinking about herself and only herself, she does not think what the rest of the world are feeling. e.g. the children of the married guy. they might be suffering under the affairs of the father and the unknown mistress.

but overall, it is just sad. that the mistress is being so selfish. although sometimes its the guy who is at fault. [as u know, it takes two hands to clap.] but being the one who always being put the blame on, she should know to get out of the tangle that she is in.

when it is naturally common for adultery to happen in adulthood, it is not in the adolescent.
i may not know her that well to pin point and judge and correct her mistakes. but as an on-looker, i think she is being selfish. and overall, she should stop going out with that pathetic guy who cheats on his wife and lead on normal teenage life. somehow or rather, i pity that guy who happens to be double her age, as he dates a sixteen year old who hasnt even complete her Olevels and just gotten her IC a year ago. v. v. pathetic. if so he wants to cheat on his wife, find someone who is more mature who doesnt talk with fake slangs and put on a tonne of makeup to look old. haha.